If this were a question from an internet company, or from academia, you would get a very different answer. An answer from tech companies will be linked to their profession and such a question here is linked to awareness and human experience that we have when it comes to copying or duplicating. If you want to hear the same words that companies or schools use here, this answer will not find recognition in you. In other words, try to listen to your underlying, own experiences when it comes to copying or duplicating. The question is not that crazy, but the questioner is aware of the behaviors of herself that she has copied from her parents/family and social circumstances. If you yourself are not aware of your own behavior in cooperation with parents and social circumstances, you would not be able to ask such a question. Then it’s not an issue at all. That doesn’t mean you don’t show copy behavior, but you’re just not busy with it. You just like it the way you are, or you haven’t yet found a way to ‘want’ to see through copying behaviour.
Why this whole discourse before I get into the difference between them? When we are born, we have the desire to love and be loved. This is a basic wish of every birth. Whether you realize this or not, somewhere you will always feel what feels right or wrong. It means that somewhere deep down you know something. What you don’t know when you are born is how to express it in a form. And then the only characteristics you have are how your parents do that. You are going to imitate their behavior and movements and in this case we call that copying, while in science this will be referred to as hereditary. You are going to copy this, because with this you hope to find the desire to be loved and loved, precisely because you experience that somewhere as your deepest desire. This deepest desire is correct, but its effect in matter, the formation of yourself, is not. The design of yourself is related to the consciousness of your parents and social values of that moment in time. That which you know within becomes the shape of the mass on the outside. As a result, many people feel out of place, or don’t know who they are, or what they really want in life.
Fortunately, with copying you still have the opportunity to find your deepest desire and learn how to shape it. This is a time consuming but rewarding process. It is a difficult process, because you have built your behavior from your desire to love and be loved. You fear that if you don’t do the same as your parents, they won’t love you anymore. Even if you do not experience your parents as loving, you will still get the same expression in the dust. Simply because that is how you learned to love and this has become the form you have now. In that sense you can say you didn’t know any better. Whatever it is. This is what I call copying. The fact that people structurally choose the wrong partners is due to copying behavior that has stuck in your form. You experience this as truth, which also makes it difficult to see through and then make different choices in it.
Then we come to duplicating, this feels much more serious to me; here you are all formed into the same as the other. There is no individuality and no possibility to change this. And therefore no awareness that it can be done differently. What suddenly comes to mind: Is cancer a process of cells that duplicate themselves? Does that mean that a cancer cell has no identity? A feeling that someone has no ability to think for themselves. No inspiration, nothing that makes someone their own. When there is no individuality, there is no possibility of change or movement towards a living destination.
The difference in terms of emotional value, I would say that with copying there is still a possibility of change because there is still someone/something who can control the copying behavior and with duplicating there is no longer any individuality what a person, originally free human should make.
Our wish is to love in freedom and to be loved in freedom. If you do not fully experience this, then you are in ‘fight’ with a copied/duplicated form. The shape you experience as your body.
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